Shem Match

NYC Private Matchmaking for jewish singles in their 30s-40s

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❌No first dates

❌No Swiping

❌No Ghosting

Not Your Yente’s Matchmaking

We are a boutique Jewish Matchmaker in NYC with proven results. Our clients are in their mid 30s to 40s, Jewish, and looking for their Beshert.

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Online Dating in nyc sucks

Endless swiping, nervous messaging, scheduling, awkward first dates full of expectations, and ghosting. It’s an exhausting and disappointing process, and it doesn’t work for everyone.

We believe successful relationships stem from three factors:

  1. Meeting without expectations

  2. Matching two individuals who are independently functional (they each know who they are and what they are looking for)

  3. Basic compatibility- values, priorities, goals, etc.

This is why we meet in-person with every potential match on behalf of our clients to ensure we are only setting them up with matches that have real potential.

This is also why we believe in ‘Kismet’ meetings–planned, happenstance encounters for our matches–that eliminate the pressure of a first date. For example, we might send you both to the same event and give you the tools to connect and start a conversation. If you hit it off, great, transition into some one-on-one time! And if it’s not a match, there’s no sitting through a meal or drink, no concern about who pays, you just end the conversation and leave!

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